Being Confident & Rich in your singleness {Single hood}…My message to you

What a beautiful day to be alive, to share something with you…that i know for sure will have an impact on your way of life and daily decision. Keep reading…

I learnt something very important from a sermon by pastor T.D Jake and i decided to share it here, so you can also be blessed by it.  I will go straight to the point.. and you can watch my YouTube video here Things Singles Ought To Know , where i elaborate more on some points and things ya should know.

Being single does not mean you are incomplete. Today, many people; adults, teenagers and sadly some adolescents rush into relationships, dating, etc. Ask yourself in all honesty, what is/ are your reason(s) to go into a relationship. Does your answer make sense? Is it worth it? Have you even prayed about it? Read this THE WAIT IS WORTH IT! (Things to do before and during dating, courting or marriage) Do not go into a relationship because of peer pressure, societal pressure, financial help and the likes, and most importantly do not rush to be in one at all.

If you are financially unstable, do not rely on a man or woman for money or material stuff. Sweat and work hard & smart for your own money and be faithful to your struggles. Don’t cheat life or find shortcuts. Make your dream life come true honorably through your hard work, consistency, determination and a Go-getting mindset. If others can be self-made and live comfortably without being born into wealth or even having a platform set for them. Why can’t you? –we are all the same… no one is more human than the other. How we use our time, energy and resources, opportunities, struggles, etc, is what separates a successful person from an unsuccessful one.

Be happy as a single; do not be eager to be in a relationship. Work on yourself , build interests, hobbies aside from church, school or work. Love and cater for your whole self (body, mind, spirit & soul) and use that period to deepen your relationship with God; so you can understand and know the worth and true meaning of a beautiful relationship; one that is true, understanding, honest, peaceful, unconditionally loving; one that will help you emotionally, spiritually and physically and mold you into the best version of yourself.

As a single person you need to live and commit to what you have. DON’T overspend or do the most, when you do not have enough. Cut your coat according to your size, to avoid the temptation of looking elsewhere for help –It’s pure laziness in my opinion. And of course, everything great takes time, there will be challenges, delays, bumps here and there….no one said it will be easy and no one said it’s impossible either. But at the end it is all worth it; if you get to call it “Your own money,” from your hard work, tears and determination. So believe in you and depend on what you can do by being productive (your daily habits, etc) –with that in mind and God’s intervention, you will soar high like an eagle. You will be Unstoppable!

Know your worth, your vision, goals & direction in life. Get to know yourself (self-love and self-discovery) and enjoy every moment of it. This goes to the ladies especially; know your worth and build yourself. When the time is right, things will surely fall into place. So, Focus on what matters, same applies to the gents; one thing at a time. Don’t give in, Don’t give up. EVER!

Until my next blog,

Remember to Flee from Temptations &

Blossom and Shine Always 😊

Sika Sunshine

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Importance of Self-Love

In my journey of attaining self-love, i am discovering interesting and great importance of self-love and self-worth (they are somehow interconnected). It is my wish that anyone reading this can relate, to be able to understand and enjoy the benefits of self-love. Here are a few points/tips i would like to share

  • First of all, Self-love gives you courage to move out of your comfort zone. To take risks and to achieve “small wins” in life which turn into Great achievements. Just think about the things that limit you to do certain things e.g. shyness. When you are shy, you are unable to do more, or go extra. You are always in the “below average” or “average” zone which is unhealthy if you want to be successful. In a nutshell, self-love erases intimidation.

 

  • Secondly, When you know your self worth, nobody can bring you down. You only absorb what is useful and discard what is not meaningful to you.

 

  • Self-love makes you the master of “your game.” You are your own boss and no one can intimidate you, because you know who you are and what you want.

 

  • Last but not the least, Self-love is a confirmation to you, your soul, mind and body that you are a master piece of life. Because you are Unique! Learn to appreciate the “whole you,” the imperfections, perfections, weaknesses and strengths that makes you up, and learn how to perfect yourself from the good and ugly side of you.

Self love equals confidence and confidence equals power. Therefore, self-love is power and nobody should take your power away from you because it (self-love) belongs to you. Let this month be your month of self-love and self appreciation of the inner and outer YOU! 

You only live once, so while you have breath be Confident, Dream Big and Achieve your Goals!